yes i noticed that.. i did some testing, printing out the path, and i made it work for the particular case when you run it by double-clicking on the jar file.
Its not working from netBeans, but no problem. ill then try out with the classpath, but this one works in different computers for sure, and i put the jar next to the lib folder, which i need, and inside this one i created the resources folder containing only de .ser file.
Thanx again!.. ive learned a few new things.. its a pity we cant know them all! haha.